}- Zodiac Girlz -{

			Updated on March 1st

YOUR LETTERS FOR KATLYN

You're all so awesome for writing in so fast with advice for Katlyn! Here's what she wrote:

Katlyn (13, from Seattle, WA) wrote:
Dear Zodiac Girlz,
My crush didn't even acknowledge me on Valentine's Day! We have been friends for a long time and I think he knows I like him (it's pretty obvious) but he completely ignored me! I gave him a funny card in the morning and he said, "thanks" and gave me a hug and then nothing! The good news is that he didn't give anyone else a card either, but what does this mean? Does he totally not like me? Is he shy? Please help, I'm so confused!
Katlyn

Love,
Sagittarius

Lauren (12, from Michigan) writes:
Hey Katlyn, don't get yourself worked up over it ok? Maybe he was having a bad day too. If you have both been friends for a long time he probably likes you too. And if he doesn't you are both still really good friends. Ask him what's wrong ok? and if he doesn't like you as a girlfriend, then, move on.

Lisa (12, from London, England) writes:
Hi Katlyn! Boys don't show their emotions very well. The most important thing is don't give up! Also boys can't take hints. I tried doing that with my crush and he didn't notice so I came right out and told him and now we are going out. So if you tell your friend then I'm sure he won't mind. Before you tell him though make sure you say something like I don't want to ruin our friendship but.... Good luck and I hope I helped.

Meghan (13, from Vermont) writes:
Dear Katlyn,
Boys can be hard to figure out! It seems in this case that it's not that he doesn't like you, but he may be having a hard time figuring things out. He might not know that you like him, and he's probably taking time to see if you really do like him. I know from experience that it might take him a while to sort everything out, but don't give up!

Balqis (18, from Malaysia) writes:
Dear Katlyn,
I know about your feelings. I think there are two possibilities that probably surround your situation. First, maybe that guy doesn't like u but he doesn't want to hurt your feeling. Second, as u said, maybe he's shy. Try to talk to him and ask him whether he already has a special person or not. Or if he's shy to tell u about his feelings. It's possible he doesn't know that u love him. So, just tell him. That's all I can help you. Only u can solve it. Good luck.

Basant (12, from Dhaka, Bangladesh) writes:
Hi Katlyn,
I am so sorry about your valentine. But no worries - there's always a next time. Now look, now you need to forget everything that happened. You just need to start a fresh, new life! Just treat your boyfriend as a friend. And slowly slowly try to become his best friend. Go on like this until the next Valentine's Day and just see what happens!!

Carrie (13, from Georgia) writes:
Dear Katlyn,
You know guys aren't really mushy - especially guys who aren't sure if a girl likes them or not. My guess (though I'm not an expert on things like this) is that he's still not quite aware of how you feel. You know how guys are - fairly unobservant for the majority of the time. He might not even realise that you have a crush on him in the slightest! You'd think that a Valentine is obvious enough, but maybe not. Then again, maybe he is too shy to say or show that he likes you back, and isn't sure if you actually like him or not and doesn't want to make the wrong move. My advice: Try not to treat him like everything's different, because is it really? If you really want him to know that you like him and are still not sure if he's aware - tell him. Don't try and hint at it and make him guess, because he probably won't understand at all, and mixed signals will just worsen everything. Guys can be so confusing, can't they? Good luck! ~ Carrie

Tiffany (13, from Arizona) writes:
The thing with guys is they do what their friends tell them to do. He might really like you. The same thing happened to me. This boy is the funniest best cutest most popular guy in school. We went out for like ever (he's a jock and I'm a cheerleader) and my best friend was going out with him now because this kid told him that I only went out for him because I felt bad, which I DIDNT!! So we were kind of off and on until this new kid came and he was kinda perverted so I called him some 'bad words'. Well now they're best friends and he told him not to like me but he still comes to my house and calls me but at school he is a total JERK! So I want to ask him out but I don't want to be rejected because of his stupid friends!! You have to be good friends with their friends and guys are so stupid sometimes they don't EVER get the clue that u like him so u have to put it right in front of him and say listened do u like me or not? So if he does GREAT!! If he doesn't he still probably does but say whatever and walk away. He will probably apologize and ask u out but just do that and see what happens.

Sam (15, from Indore, India) writes:
Hi Katlyn,
I totally sympathise with you. I'm stuck in the exact same problem so I can understand how it feels. I think the only and the most practical way out of this problem would be to talk to the guy in question. I'm doing this tomorrow. All the best

Kyla (12, from the USA) writes:
omg! no offense but u r being way self centered all u care about is urself! what about all the other girls who don't get attention from the guys we like, u don't hear us complaining!!! he obviously doesn't like u at the moment, he probably likes u as a friend i mean he did hug u!!!!! come on, i used to like a guy, and he thought it was weird how i always asked him out, ur guy probably feels the same! common, u gave him a valentines card?? he is probably embarrassed, cuz i kno i was embarrassed when this weird guy gave me a valentine last year! i mean its just weird giving a valentine unless u r going out! Besides he probably thinks ur obsessed and is creeped out!! so just leave him alone for awhile and maybe than he will like you! trust me! no stalking! no cards! no emails! don't even talk to the guy for awhile! then he will eventually like u! trust me playing hard to get is the best answer for a girl like u! he will be happy that he can breath his own air for once and wont have to worry about running from u all the time! and then after some free time for himself he will be ready for time with you! so JUST LEAVE THE GUY ALONE! trust me... u can have so many better hobbies then stalking the guy u like! maybe hang out w/ friends they r probably mad that u always leave them out to stalk ur guy! so gurl get a life and stop stalking this guy!! by the way HAPPY VALENTINES DAY!~**...kyla

Bronnie (15, from Wapella, Canada) writes:
Don't take this as rejection. Also, are you absolutely sure that he knows that you like him? I mean, it's like you said. You've been friends for a long time, so he responded as a friend would. The other reason could be that he secretly likes you, but doesn't want to voice it aloud for the same reason you didn't: rejection. So first of, gather up your courage and tell this guy that you like him a lot, more that just friends, and then ask him if he feels the same way or if he might grow to feel the same way. If he doesn't or can't, ask if you can still be friends. If he says yes to that, good. If he says no, mourn a little bit over a lost friend, then pick yourself up and move on. Trust me, it's gonna be one of these options. I've been through a couple myself (7 in fact: only 3 of them worked out), so don't let this Valentines "cold shoulder" get you down. Go get some answers!

Becky (11, from Canada) writes:
I think he is shy because if he like totally knows that you like him, he can be shy. He might not know how to express himself and tell you that he likes you too! And like the same think happened to me so I know what you're like going through. Love, Becky (P.S. Hope this helps!)

Sara (14) writes:
Hi Katlyn
It is good that u have send a card to your crush and it is good that u and your crush are good friends. U told us that he have not gave a valentine card to anyone either so I think he likes u too but he is shy. Don't worry don't be confused if u really like him so I think u should tell him every thing with confidence. Byee

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